If sexual thoughts or sexual activity feel out of control—or a loved one is affected—you’re not alone. New Convictions Recovery supports individuals and partners with licensed therapists, group therapy options, practical coping strategies, and a respectful, judgment-free process.We provide addiction counseling in Alpine, NJ, guided by New Convictions Recovery founder Roland Achtau, LCSW, LCADC, with a focus on privacy, mental health, and sustainable change.Request a Private Appointment
In Alpine, NJ, meaningful recovery often begins with a thoughtfully coordinated treatment plan that may include collaboration with medical professionals when medication management is appropriate for concerns such as anxiety, depression, or intrusive, obsessive thoughts. Nestled near scenic spots like the Palisades Interstate Park, the Alpine Lookout, and the historic Kearney House, individuals can draw on both professional care and the calming local environment as they work toward change. A comprehensive approach to behavioral recovery typically includes:
- Personalized one-on-one support: Exploring triggers, processing unresolved trauma, and learning practical coping tools to manage urges and distress.
- Relapse prevention planning: Creating a concrete strategy for high-risk situations, recognizing early warning signs, and developing alternative responses.
- Accountability structures: Using tracking tools, regular check-ins, and structured follow-up to maintain consistency and momentum.
- Partner-focused guidance: Providing education, resources, and support for partners, including boundary setting and safety planning.
- Long-term aftercare: Ongoing sessions and connection to supportive communities to reduce the likelihood of relapse.
Over time, clients learn to tolerate emotional discomfort, repair significant relationships, and cultivate a stronger sense of self-worth and identity—creating a life that no longer depends on compulsive behaviors, but is instead supported by healthy routines and the restorative surroundings of Alpine.
How New Convictions Recovery Helps in Alpine, NJ
New Convictions Recovery offers a private, personalized approach—without the “assembly line” feel that some larger programs create.
Roland Achtau, LCSW, LCADC leads a team of addiction professionals who focus on practical change, not shame.
What clients often value most
- Clear next steps and a structured process (not vague advice)
- Respectful care for individuals, couples, and families
- Options for telehealth sessions for easier access across Alpine, NJ
- Coordination with other mental health professionals when needed
Learn more about our approach on the About Us page,
or explore related services under Services.
Support Groups and Trusted Resources
Many people combine therapy sessions with a 12-step program or skills-based community supports.
These resources can be a powerful layer of accountability between appointments.
- Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA): peer support and structured recovery meetings
(saa-recovery.org) - SMART Recovery: evidence-informed tools for behavior change
(smartrecovery.org) - International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP): education and provider information
(iitap.com) - Therapist directory: find licensed therapists by specialty and location
(psychologytoday.com)
Frequently Asked Questions
What’s the difference between a high sex drive and an addiction?
A high libido isn’t the issue by itself. The red flags are loss of control, secrecy, and negative consequences—especially when behavior continues despite harm.
Do I need to “hit rock bottom” before therapy helps?
No. Early support often prevents escalation and reduces harm. Many people start when they notice growing distress, relationship strain, or unwanted behavior they can’t stop.
Can therapy help if pornography is the main problem?
Yes. Treatment can address triggers, compulsive habits, emotional regulation, and underlying factors like anxiety, trauma, or depression—while building healthier routines.
What if my partner doesn’t trust me anymore?
Rebuilding trust is a process. Couples counseling can help create transparency agreements, boundaries, and a repair plan—while also supporting partners affected by betrayal trauma.
Is group therapy required?
Not always, but it can be very effective. Many people benefit from group counseling or support groups because it reduces isolation and strengthens accountability.
Do you offer telehealth in Alpine, NJ?
In many cases, yes. Telehealth can make it easier to keep consistent sessions while maintaining privacy and flexibility.
How do I choose the right therapist?
Look for licensed clinicians with experience in compulsive sexual behaviors and related mental health concerns. It also matters that you feel safe, respected, and understood.
Take the Next Step
If you’re ready to change—or you’re worried about someone you love—support is available.
Reach out to New Convictions Recovery to discuss options, timing, and a plan that fits your situation.
Pros and Cons of Starting Therapy
| Pros | Cons |
|---|---|
| Clear guidance, structure, and support from trained professionals | Requires time and consistent follow-through |
| Tools for coping strategies, relapse prevention, and emotional regulation | Cost can be a factor depending on coverage and needs |
| Improved relationships and better mental health stability | Discussing past trauma or abuse can feel uncomfortable at first |
| Support for partners and couples navigating repair | Finding the right fit may take a few consultations |
Our NJ Locations
We Proudly Serve New Jersey
A local support network is crucial when working through an addiction. As such, we limit our service area to include the towns surrounding Alpine, NJ.
Other towns we serve: