If sexual thoughts or sexual activity feel out of control—or a loved one is affected—you’re not alone. New Convictions Recovery supports individuals and partners with licensed therapists, group therapy options, practical coping strategies, and a respectful, judgment-free process.We provide addiction counseling in Englewood Cliffs, NJ, guided by New Convictions Recovery founder Roland Achtau, LCSW, LCADC, with a focus on privacy, mental health, and sustainable change.Request a Private Appointment
Personalized medication management may be recommended when appropriate—such as for anxiety, depression, or intrusive, obsessive thoughts—and we can collaborate closely with prescribing medical professionals to align it with your overall care plan. Our approach to meaningful recovery from compulsive sexual behavior often includes several integrated elements:
- Individual support: Exploring triggers, working through unresolved trauma, and developing practical coping tools for urges and emotional overwhelm.
- Relapse prevention planning: Creating a concrete strategy for high‑risk situations, recognizing early warning signs, and planning specific responses.
- Accountability structures: Using monitoring tools, scheduled check‑ins, and structured supports to help you maintain consistent progress.
- Partner-focused resources: Providing education, guidance on boundaries, and safety planning to support partners affected by sexual compulsivity.
- Aftercare and ongoing support: Continuing sessions and connection to community resources to help stabilize gains and reduce relapse risk over time.
For many people, a real turning point comes from learning to tolerate emotional distress, improve self-regulation, and rebuild a life that does not depend on compulsive behavior. In Englewood Cliffs, NJ, this might mean replacing old patterns with healthier routines—such as reflective walks along the Hudson River waterfront, mindful time at nearby parks like Ross Dock, or quiet moments taking in views of the George Washington Bridge—while working to repair relationships, strengthen identity, and restore self-worth.
How New Convictions Recovery Helps in Englewood Cliffs, NJ
New Convictions Recovery offers a private, personalized approach—without the “assembly line” feel that some larger programs create.
Roland Achtau, LCSW, LCADC leads a team of addiction professionals who focus on practical change, not shame.
What clients often value most
- Clear next steps and a structured process (not vague advice)
- Respectful care for individuals, couples, and families
- Options for telehealth sessions for easier access across Englewood Cliffs, NJ
- Coordination with other mental health professionals when needed
Learn more about our approach on the About Us page,
or explore related services under Services.
Support Groups and Trusted Resources
Many people combine therapy sessions with a 12-step program or skills-based community supports.
These resources can be a powerful layer of accountability between appointments.
- Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA): peer support and structured recovery meetings
(saa-recovery.org) - SMART Recovery: evidence-informed tools for behavior change
(smartrecovery.org) - International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP): education and provider information
(iitap.com) - Therapist directory: find licensed therapists by specialty and location
(psychologytoday.com)
Frequently Asked Questions
What’s the difference between a high sex drive and an addiction?
A high libido isn’t the issue by itself. The red flags are loss of control, secrecy, and negative consequences—especially when behavior continues despite harm.
Do I need to “hit rock bottom” before therapy helps?
No. Early support often prevents escalation and reduces harm. Many people start when they notice growing distress, relationship strain, or unwanted behavior they can’t stop.
Can therapy help if pornography is the main problem?
Yes. Treatment can address triggers, compulsive habits, emotional regulation, and underlying factors like anxiety, trauma, or depression—while building healthier routines.
What if my partner doesn’t trust me anymore?
Rebuilding trust is a process. Couples counseling can help create transparency agreements, boundaries, and a repair plan—while also supporting partners affected by betrayal trauma.
Is group therapy required?
Not always, but it can be very effective. Many people benefit from group counseling or support groups because it reduces isolation and strengthens accountability.
Do you offer telehealth in Englewood Cliffs, NJ?
In many cases, yes. Telehealth can make it easier to keep consistent sessions while maintaining privacy and flexibility.
How do I choose the right therapist?
Look for licensed clinicians with experience in compulsive sexual behaviors and related mental health concerns. It also matters that you feel safe, respected, and understood.
Take the Next Step
If you’re ready to change—or you’re worried about someone you love—support is available.
Reach out to New Convictions Recovery to discuss options, timing, and a plan that fits your situation.
Pros and Cons of Starting Therapy
| Pros | Cons |
|---|---|
| Clear guidance, structure, and support from trained professionals | Requires time and consistent follow-through |
| Tools for coping strategies, relapse prevention, and emotional regulation | Cost can be a factor depending on coverage and needs |
| Improved relationships and better mental health stability | Discussing past trauma or abuse can feel uncomfortable at first |
| Support for partners and couples navigating repair | Finding the right fit may take a few consultations |
Our NJ Locations
We Proudly Serve New Jersey
A local support network is crucial when working through an addiction. As such, we limit our service area to include the towns surrounding Englewood Cliffs, NJ.
Other towns we serve: