If sexual thoughts or sexual activity feel out of control—or a loved one is affected—you’re not alone. New Convictions Recovery supports individuals and partners with licensed therapists, group therapy options, practical coping strategies, and a respectful, judgment-free process.We provide addiction counseling in Saddle Brook, NJ, guided by New Convictions Recovery founder Roland Achtau, LCSW, LCADC, with a focus on privacy, mental health, and sustainable change.Request a Private Appointment
Personalized care may also involve medication management when appropriate—for example, to help stabilize anxiety, depression, or obsessive thoughts—which we can coordinate with your prescribing provider as part of a comprehensive treatment plan. Our approach to compulsive behavior recovery typically includes:
- Individual counseling: exploring triggers, processing past trauma, and developing effective coping strategies to replace harmful patterns.
- Relapse prevention planning: creating clear steps for navigating high-risk situations, recognizing early warning signs, and responding before behaviors escalate.
- Accountability structures: using tools, regular check-ins, and supportive resources to help you maintain consistent progress over time.
- Partner support: offering education, boundary-setting guidance, and safety planning so partners feel informed and empowered in the healing process.
- Aftercare and long-term support: continuing sessions and connecting you with community resources to reduce relapse risk and sustain positive change.
For many people, the real breakthrough comes from learning to tolerate distress without reverting to compulsions, while rebuilding a meaningful life—improving emotional regulation, repairing relationships, and strengthening identity and self-worth. In Saddle Brook, NJ, this might include rediscovering everyday experiences with new intention, such as enjoying a peaceful walk through Saddle River County Park, spending reflective time near the Saddle River, or simply engaging in healthier routines around local neighborhoods and community spaces as you create a more grounded, values-based lifestyle.
How New Convictions Recovery Helps in Saddle Brook, NJ
New Convictions Recovery offers a private, personalized approach—without the “assembly line” feel that some larger programs create.
Roland Achtau, LCSW, LCADC leads a team of addiction professionals who focus on practical change, not shame.
What clients often value most
- Clear next steps and a structured process (not vague advice)
- Respectful care for individuals, couples, and families
- Options for telehealth sessions for easier access across Saddle Brook, NJ
- Coordination with other mental health professionals when needed
Learn more about our approach on the About Us page,
or explore related services under Services.
Support Groups and Trusted Resources
Many people combine therapy sessions with a 12-step program or skills-based community supports.
These resources can be a powerful layer of accountability between appointments.
- Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA): peer support and structured recovery meetings
(saa-recovery.org) - SMART Recovery: evidence-informed tools for behavior change
(smartrecovery.org) - International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP): education and provider information
(iitap.com) - Therapist directory: find licensed therapists by specialty and location
(psychologytoday.com)
Frequently Asked Questions
What’s the difference between a high sex drive and an addiction?
A high libido isn’t the issue by itself. The red flags are loss of control, secrecy, and negative consequences—especially when behavior continues despite harm.
Do I need to “hit rock bottom” before therapy helps?
No. Early support often prevents escalation and reduces harm. Many people start when they notice growing distress, relationship strain, or unwanted behavior they can’t stop.
Can therapy help if pornography is the main problem?
Yes. Treatment can address triggers, compulsive habits, emotional regulation, and underlying factors like anxiety, trauma, or depression—while building healthier routines.
What if my partner doesn’t trust me anymore?
Rebuilding trust is a process. Couples counseling can help create transparency agreements, boundaries, and a repair plan—while also supporting partners affected by betrayal trauma.
Is group therapy required?
Not always, but it can be very effective. Many people benefit from group counseling or support groups because it reduces isolation and strengthens accountability.
Do you offer telehealth in Saddle Brook, NJ?
In many cases, yes. Telehealth can make it easier to keep consistent sessions while maintaining privacy and flexibility.
How do I choose the right therapist?
Look for licensed clinicians with experience in compulsive sexual behaviors and related mental health concerns. It also matters that you feel safe, respected, and understood.
Take the Next Step
If you’re ready to change—or you’re worried about someone you love—support is available.
Reach out to New Convictions Recovery to discuss options, timing, and a plan that fits your situation.
Pros and Cons of Starting Therapy
| Pros | Cons |
|---|---|
| Clear guidance, structure, and support from trained professionals | Requires time and consistent follow-through |
| Tools for coping strategies, relapse prevention, and emotional regulation | Cost can be a factor depending on coverage and needs |
| Improved relationships and better mental health stability | Discussing past trauma or abuse can feel uncomfortable at first |
| Support for partners and couples navigating repair | Finding the right fit may take a few consultations |
Our NJ Locations
We Proudly Serve New Jersey
A local support network is crucial when working through an addiction. As such, we limit our service area to include the towns surrounding Saddle Brook, NJ.
Other towns we serve: